False “Godsight” may seem true to us at the moment but leads to blame, accusation, condemnation, gossip, resentment, and more. Learning to stop the “sark” is learning to see others through the eyes of heaven where people are more important than their malfunctions. Seeing life and relationships from God’s perspective keeps us connected in joy and peace.
PODCAST | Chris explains what “the sark” is, how it interacts with the relational brain skill of “Stop the Sark” (Skill 14), and what Jesus has to say about it.
BLOG | Read about our Thrive trainer, Amy’s perspective on the sark and ways you can stop it.
VIDEO | Seeing some of what God sees (skill 13) is essential for forgiveness and to hold onto our peace. Focusing on pain and ruminating on the things which bothers us keeps us in Enemy Mode. Making the shift back to relational mode requires much-needed strength during times of difficulty. One of the best ways to find peace and stay connected is interacting with the Living God.
Our PODCAST talks about this skill in these episodes:
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From learning the basics to diving right in, our Learning Menu shows a progression of how to start building the relational skills in your life to see transformation and healing.
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